This post is a response to ExtraPetite's post on how to build confidence. Read the post (very informative and helpful) if you haven't
here. When she talked about posture and presentation it hit right at home for me. I wanted in this post to discuss from my past mistakes of ill fit and I want to pass my experiences and warn you how a piece of clothing can alter how you present yourself.
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Blouse-Banana Republic in XS (kinda similar here)
Tshirt- Express in XS (very old)
Skirt- FCUK in size 4 (very old, last worn here) (identical here)
Shoes- Anne Klein in size 6 (last worn here) |
My background info:
I'm probably one of the worst when it comes to fit. I am the most likely blogger to wear something that is ill fitted (but I'm trying to make amends)! I really love exaggerated items, especially when it comes to skirts/dresses and buy things regardless of fit when it is on sale. But I digress.
One of my experiences that I have come by is that ill fit = ill posture. Here are some classic examples on ill fit on anyone, not just for petites.
Long/plunge neckline.
Solutions 1- Hiking the straps up. Limitations: tops that have a bust/empire seam will prevent any dramatic hiking of straps. Or be in discomfort since seam can go on top of the bust. Solution 2- Adding a layer underneath
Consequences:
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| Shoulder shrug: if you like the Jedi look Back stoop: grandma loses her cane |
Strapless.
Solution 1- Alter the bust area.
Solution 2- Adding sleeves.
Consequences:
Leaning into the dress, not standing up on your own. Similar to the back stoop but actual shrinking into the body. Miley Cyrus is wearing a gorgeous Jenny Packham gown but the dress seems to be commanding the attention here. Good thing the gown is gorgeous. =0D
Big at the waist.
Solution 1- taking it to a tailor.
Solution 2- utilize a belt.
Consequences:
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| Sticking stomach out to compensate the big fabric. |
The Banana Republic drapey blouse can be worn at an evening out with friends and family, something that will only be worn for a couple of hours. However, for work it is A) inappropriate and B) impractical for long hours of readjusting and fidgeting. Whether you are petite sized or not, one should feel great in what they are wearing. Throughout the day if you are messing with your outfit more than a couple of times, reevaluate.
To summarize, if you wear ill fitted clothes === clothes will wear YOU. The body will make involuntary responses once you feel uncomfortable with what you wear. Ugh, now if I can stop buying clothes just because they are not on sale than I would have my work cut out for me.